“A few years from today you will thank yourself for not falling into the trap of relationships.”

Hi Sweetheart-
When I was 16 and all my friends were in the same age range…we all “fell in love” with someone or another. It was intense, it hurt, we cried, we felt so hopeless and sad. When we got into our 20′s one day and sat down, the topic came up of what the one time was when you felt the most emotionally drained? 16. It’s a tough age. Not because your hormones are kicking in. It’s more so because you feel a lot of things for the first time. And the first time everything is so different.
99.9% of the time, the people you meet before college will be long gone into thin air by the time you enter college. At 16 even if you have incredibly valid and strong feelings for a boy…boys can never stay stable at that age. Their hormones are raging…today you’ll be enough, a year or four years later- they may be done and ready to move on. If you and this boy are meant to be, nothing in the world can stop you two from being together at the right time. But like Sister Fatima suggested, find ways to distract yourself. A few years from today you will thank yourself for not falling into the trap of relationships. Once you begin to depend on another, that need never ends and make you as a person very dependent. Be independent, be enough for yourself.

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