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im so freaking tired of tryign to be confident or just talking like a normal person. idk what im even saying I feel so exhausted and so stuck. I feel like I cant be confident and im stuck being hypervigilant, and I act on my insecurities. and when I act on my insecurities I do ... Read More
Salam, so I think I’m really ugly
I’ve posted way too much on this site but it’s anonymous so heh I’m 15 years old, and an Egyptian girl who grew up in a western country, and there are times where I feel really pretty and I look at photos and actually get surprised from how ... Read More
Assalamu alaikum 23FI am feeling very hurt, and I feel like I am in so much despair. For context, I have really bad PTSD. I’ve been diagnosed with PTSD among other conditions, and I have crippling anxiety. I am currently in therapy. Since early 2025, or early last year, I have been praying and asking ... Read More
Salaam,I dont really know how to phrase this but every since 7th grade ive been in this like sadness loop if you call it. At first I thought maybe it is depression but sometimes I get these periods of like 2 weeks of not being sad. I dont know how to decribe my feelings sometimes ... Read More
Alright so, I know this is a long story but please i need help, i am honestly doubting coming here, but this is sort of a last resort option, i genuinely don’t know what to do.here is the story (some typos may be within):So 2 months ago, I was playing capture the flag, where this ... Read More
Salam, this is a continuation of the post “I fought with my best friend”, and I’m writing this nearly a month later. If you cannot go read the other post, what happened was this; my best friend has liked a guy at school for 2 years now, and 2026 marked the start of year 3 ... Read More
I’m a 14-year-old Muslim girl seeking guidance about a friendship situation. For the past two years, I’ve been best friends with another Muslim girl. During this time, I’ve struggled with feeling authentic in our friendship. I often feel drained and find myself people-pleasing – saying yes to everything she says, not being able to open ... Read More
Assalamu alaikum,I am a 22 year old woman, and I have been struggling a lot with rage in the context of my relationships, in the sense of letting it coexist in my relationship without feeling like the relationship might end, and a lot of it ties back to my own experiences growing up. I was ... Read More
I’m in desperate need of advice, and I’d be so grateful for your help. My current friend has been such a blessing in my life, truly a gift from God when I least expected it.What I’m struggling with is that I don’t know how to exist in this friendship. I feel so heartbroken because something ... Read More
Assalamu alaikum. I’m a 22 year old woman living in Norway. Lately I’ve been reflecting so much on my past friendship. I thank Allah every day for ending it. Because He saved me from someone I didn’t even realize was that damaging to me. At the time, I was living in an emotionally abusive household ... Read More
