“There ARE guys out there who want to wait until marriage to have sex”

Thank you for this story. It was a reminder to myself of where I used to be at one time and how far I have come with the Grace of Allah. Funny thing is, I’m a GUY. And I think it is very important for people to realize that it’s not only girls, but guys who experience such things as well. It may not seem like it, but there ARE guys out there who want to wait until marriage to have sex. I used to believe in waiting for sex, too. But worldly temptations and being in the wrong place at the wrong time, whether knowingly or unknowingly, can change things in a heartbeat.
If I had never said hi to that girl at the train station, I would be a completely different person now.
However, I cannot say that I am worse off now that I committed that sin so many years ago. I know I learned a lot from those mistakes and even though it has taken a long time to come to terms with myself, I know that I am SOOO much better now, alhamdulillah.

Stay strong and keep your head up. May Allah forgive each and every one of us and may He guide us in the right path.

-InspiredByLife

Original Post can be found here.