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I’m stuck in an endless cycle of procrastinating and unmotivated to work.

I’m stuck in an endless cycle of procrastinating and unmotivated to work.

Assalam u Alaikum. I know a person who is a 21-year-old male. Currently, he is an undergrad student, and right now, as I write this post, he is currently working on an internship Alhamdulillah. As the title says, he has a HUGE problem with procrastinating. Ever since COVID, when things shifted online in 2020, his ... Read More
 
Need advice on emotional miss attunement

Need advice on emotional miss attunement

I’m in desperate need of advice, and I’d be so grateful for your help. My current friend has been such a blessing in my life, truly a gift from God when I least expected it.What I’m struggling with is that I don’t know how to exist in this friendship. I feel so heartbroken because something ... Read More
 
Feeling disqualified and undeserving of marriage

Feeling disqualified and undeserving of marriage

Assalamu alaikum. I’m a 22 year old woman living in Norway. Lately I’ve been reflecting so much on my past friendship. I thank Allah every day for ending it. Because He saved me from someone I didn’t even realize was that damaging to me. At the time, I was living in an emotionally abusive household ... Read More
 
It seems impossible that I’ll get married in the way I want to, and I can’t imagine any other way being nice for me.

It seems impossible that I’ll get married in the way I want to, and I can’t imagine any other way being nice for me.

I’m seventeen. I think I’ve had a vague interest in marriage for a while. Like, I was interested in being in a relationship probably since I was thirteen (but Alhamdulillah, it has been very easy for me to stay away from non-mahram guys for my entire life, and I’ve never even really wanted to interact ... Read More
 
Wudu issues for Almost 2 Years

Wudu issues for Almost 2 Years

Assalaamu alaykum!For almost two years I have been struggling with flatulence issues. It all started with, I’ll just call it a GI issue, and since then, my wudu has never been the same. Over time it caused much issues with gas. I still pray alhamdulillah, but it’s such a struggle that I don’t pray the ... Read More