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Link to previous post: https://www.stonestobridges.org/2026/03/09/masturbating-addiction/ Update:Since my last post on March 12th, I have been trying desperately to turn my life around. I actually managed to go two weeks without porn/masturbation, which was a huge milestone for me. I was starting to feel proud and was finally mentally preparing myself to return to my SalahHowever, ... Read More
Im 15 female so everything started 2 years ago , when I was praying normally in ramadan some very bad thoughts came to me it was scared didnt know what to do , then days passed and the thoughts were getting worse and worse until some nights I was scared to even close my eyes ... Read More
Counselling Request – Personal Background and Concerns I am a 25-year-old female currently living at home with both of my parents, Alhamdulillah, and three of my siblings. I am seeking counselling because I feel overwhelmed and I do not know who to speak to for guidance, especially from an Islamic perspective. I did not grow ... Read More
I just started therapy. I’m only on my second session, but it’s already bringing up so many feelings I didn’t expect. Therapy is making me feel miserable about myself in ways I never anticipated. I’ve always been an advocate for therapy. I’ve preached how important it is to take care of ourselves, how beautiful it ... Read More
Salam,I’m a 14 year old girl, and there are so many things wrong with me and I have so many worries but I CAN’T FIGURE THEM OUT. Ever since I was young I’ve been hyper-aware of myself and very self conscious of every thought, impulsion, situation, and I’m good at analysing problems. This might be ... Read More
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, I am 15 years old and I struggle with OCD. I am very tense and need your help. At first, I used to pray a lot of nawafil prayers because I thought Allah would be angry with me if I didn’t. Whenever I saw any ayah about punishment, I ... Read More
I am a 21 year old graduate with no technical job. I’ve had socializing issues for as long as I can remember. From what I have been able to gather myself it is from trauma and never having had developed social skills. I have talked with people about it trying to address(it never really helped ... Read More
Assalamu alaikum. I’m a 22 year old woman living in Norway. Lately I’ve been reflecting so much on my past friendship. I thank Allah every day for ending it. Because He saved me from someone I didn’t even realize was that damaging to me. At the time, I was living in an emotionally abusive household ... Read More
Dear Fatma I am struggling with fear and anxiety I feel like Islam is too heavy for me I’m using drugs to cope but I am tired I am afraid to pray everything is scary morning every day should I quit I am tired. I’m struggling with anxiety in the morning afraid of everything my ... Read More
Assalamu alaykum, I’m a 22 year old woman. Since February, I’ve felt a deep, unwavering desire to get married. SubhanAllah, I swear to you when that desire came, something changed inside me. Without even trying, I quit watching pornography. It wasn’t a struggle this time. I just knew: I need to let this go to ... Read More