Archive For: Dear Fatima
I’m 14 male and I’ve been trying to stop masturbating for a while now but I can’t seem to stop Thank you for submitting your post to Stones to Bridges! We pray you will find the responses below beneficial. If you find these responses helpful, we’d love for you to share what you appreciated and ... Read More
Umm, okay, so this is going to be more like a blurb for diary entry or sm because I am really bad at putting my thoughts out. Okay, so I started wearing the hijab literally the first day of seventh grade—like the day before, I didn’t wear it when I went outside. I mainly started ... Read More
SO in my previous post I talked about how I like this girl alright, so yes the crying and everything, alhamudlilah allah did the impossible, turned out before the term ended a friend of mine talked to her for me, to just to know me better, the thing is in this modern day and age, ... Read More
Salam. I hope you’re doing well. I’m 19 years old, female and I currently work. I grew up in a very closed, judgmental environment where people are interested in the latest gossip and materialistic things. Doing anything that isn’t “normal” in the community is good gossip to talk about and is looked down upon. I ... Read More
I am struggling with a conflict that has been weighing on me for a long time. When I was younger, around 12, I played The Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild and Tears of the Kingdom. They weren’t just games to me. They were incredibly beautiful, cinematic, and they made me feel so calm. ... Read More
I’m 18 and wanna get married, but my parents seem against it cos of my age or maybe cos I don’t have a degree. But isn’t it wrong for parents to prevent their children from marriage for reasons like that? I’m a girl, so it’s not like I need an income, and I can study ... Read More
I’m a 17 year old boy and in a couple of months I’ll be 18 years old. I’m currently addicted to pornography and have been trying on and off to go to the right path and come back to Allah but failed. However, that is a story for another time. Today I just want some ... Read More
**Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem****Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh, dear brothers and sisters in Islam.** I am writing this message with a heart full of pain, hoping that Allah will guide me and that I may receive sincere advice and du’a from this blessed community. Allah says in the Qur’an:*”Allah does not burden a soul beyond ... Read More
Link to previous post: https://www.stonestobridges.org/2026/03/09/masturbating-addiction/ Update:Since my last post on March 12th, I have been trying desperately to turn my life around. I actually managed to go two weeks without porn/masturbation, which was a huge milestone for me. I was starting to feel proud and was finally mentally preparing myself to return to my SalahHowever, ... Read More
I am a 24 years old female who is currently living with her family. I’ve recently received a proposal brought from my family of someone practicing and of good background. If all goes well, we will be engaged which is likely going to happen. The thing is, I don’t feel excited or happy about this ... Read More
