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Feeling disqualified and undeserving of marriage

Feeling disqualified and undeserving of marriage

Assalamu alaikum. I’m a 22 year old woman living in Norway. Lately I’ve been reflecting so much on my past friendship. I thank Allah every day for ending it. Because He saved me from someone I didn’t even realize was that damaging to me. At the time, I was living in an emotionally abusive household ... Read More
 
It seems impossible that I’ll get married in the way I want to, and I can’t imagine any other way being nice for me.

It seems impossible that I’ll get married in the way I want to, and I can’t imagine any other way being nice for me.

I’m seventeen. I think I’ve had a vague interest in marriage for a while. Like, I was interested in being in a relationship probably since I was thirteen (but Alhamdulillah, it has been very easy for me to stay away from non-mahram guys for my entire life, and I’ve never even really wanted to interact ... Read More
 
Pursuing people

Pursuing people

I don’t know if this is the right place to ask this, and it’s a bit of a weird question lol, but I’m interested in this guy but I don’t really know him (I want to get to know him) but he’s got like 100 k followers on Instagram and I dm’d him lol but ... Read More
 
Fears about marriage

Fears about marriage

Assalamu alaykum, I’m a 22 year old woman. Since February, I’ve felt a deep, unwavering desire to get married. SubhanAllah, I swear to you when that desire came, something changed inside me. Without even trying, I quit watching pornography. It wasn’t a struggle this time. I just knew: I need to let this go to ... Read More
 
I’m slipping…

I’m slipping…

Dear Fatima, For reference: https://www.stonestobridges.org/2024/09/18/conflicted-on-naseeb/I want to talk about something that I struggled with last year and am dealing with the consequences of now. I have always been a good girl, if I say so myself. Not perfect, but I always try to do what’s right and am quite firm on it. I believe the ... Read More
 
Not really sure if Waiting-Til-Marriage is Worth it Anymore

Not really sure if Waiting-Til-Marriage is Worth it Anymore

Assallamu’alaikum, dear Sisters, I am a 22 yr old female, living in the United States. I am a moderately practicing Muslim; I fast Ramadan, do Zakat, pray and dress somewhat modest.Recently, I’ve been reflecting quite a bit on the concept of “virginity”. I am abstinent up to this point. However, I’ve been wondering if remaining ... Read More
 
Stuck in haram behaviors and influences

Stuck in haram behaviors and influences

I am 15, female, living in the united states, in a non-Muslim household. I reverted around 14, without my parents knowing, because they are Islamophobic. I don’t know what to do, I’m surrounded by haram influences, and feel that I am displeasing Allah. I’m in a haram relationship, have committed zina, and don’t see a ... Read More