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It seems impossible that I’ll get married in the way I want to, and I can’t imagine any other way being nice for me.

It seems impossible that I’ll get married in the way I want to, and I can’t imagine any other way being nice for me.

I’m seventeen. I think I’ve had a vague interest in marriage for a while. Like, I was interested in being in a relationship probably since I was thirteen (but Alhamdulillah, it has been very easy for me to stay away from non-mahram guys for my entire life, and I’ve never even really wanted to interact ... Read More
 
Wudu issues for Almost 2 Years

Wudu issues for Almost 2 Years

Assalaamu alaykum!For almost two years I have been struggling with flatulence issues. It all started with, I’ll just call it a GI issue, and since then, my wudu has never been the same. Over time it caused much issues with gas. I still pray alhamdulillah, but it’s such a struggle that I don’t pray the ... Read More
 
Pursuing people

Pursuing people

I don’t know if this is the right place to ask this, and it’s a bit of a weird question lol, but I’m interested in this guy but I don’t really know him (I want to get to know him) but he’s got like 100 k followers on Instagram and I dm’d him lol but ... Read More
 
Fears about marriage

Fears about marriage

Assalamu alaykum, I’m a 22 year old woman. Since February, I’ve felt a deep, unwavering desire to get married. SubhanAllah, I swear to you when that desire came, something changed inside me. Without even trying, I quit watching pornography. It wasn’t a struggle this time. I just knew: I need to let this go to ... Read More
 
Family life and Dynamics

Family life and Dynamics

I am female that is turning 15 this year. Regarding my family I can definitely say we’re struggling financially, at least that’s how I see it. We’re able to get by the month alright but we won’t have any money left for savings. My mother complains a lot about money troubles and I feel like ... Read More