Archive For: Dear Fatima
I just started therapy. I’m only on my second session, but it’s already bringing up so many feelings I didn’t expect. Therapy is making me feel miserable about myself in ways I never anticipated. I’ve always been an advocate for therapy. I’ve preached how important it is to take care of ourselves, how beautiful it ... Read More
Hello! I’m a 22 yr old girl, about to finish my undergrad soon and inshallah do my masters next year! My parents have been bringing up the topic of marriage lol and I have no romantic experience with guys so I’ve always felt a bit insecure about that. They just suggested I start thinking about ... Read More
Assalamu ‘alaikum. This post is mainly just to rant because I have no one to talk to about this right now. I don’t want to go into detail in case somehow my family comes across this site and figures out that this is me (I don’t think they know about it, but just to be ... Read More
Assalamualaikum, I’m writing to get your opinion on something. I’m a 22 year old woman living in Canada. I’m in the last semester of my undergrad, inshallah after that I plan on staying with my parents for a bit in Qatar until I go on to do my Masters next year (somewhere in the Middle ... Read More
Assalamu alaikum,I am a 22 year old woman, and I have been struggling a lot with rage in the context of my relationships, in the sense of letting it coexist in my relationship without feeling like the relationship might end, and a lot of it ties back to my own experiences growing up. I was ... Read More
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, I am 15 years old and I struggle with OCD. I am very tense and need your help. At first, I used to pray a lot of nawafil prayers because I thought Allah would be angry with me if I didn’t. Whenever I saw any ayah about punishment, I ... Read More
i really like a guy but i know it’s against my religion to pursue but i crave care which my mom can’t give me and i can’t go to my friends bc i have mostly different religion close friends and i don’t want to bother them im just so lost Thank you for submitting your ... Read More
I recently gave a residency entrance test exam and I failed and this is like the 5th time I have failed since graduation. I don’t remember asking Allah for anything as much as I prayed fo this one exam and I swear I am sooo tired, it is like I have a really bad naseeb ... Read More
I am 25F, going on 26. And as someone who has worked hard and moved through this world trying to build up and be the best me that I can be- I feel so lost. Let’s start with marriage. I aspire to marry, and as I am getting older, my parents’ concerns are only growing ... Read More
Assalam u Alaikum. I know a person who is a 21-year-old male. Currently, he is an undergrad student, and right now, as I write this post, he is currently working on an internship Alhamdulillah. As the title says, he has a HUGE problem with procrastinating. Ever since COVID, when things shifted online in 2020, his ... Read More
