Archive For: Dear Fatima
I am struggling with a conflict that has been weighing on me for a long time. When I was younger, around 12, I played The Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild and Tears of the Kingdom. They weren’t just games to me. They were incredibly beautiful, cinematic, and they made me feel so calm. ... Read More
I’m 18 and wanna get married, but my parents seem against it cos of my age or maybe cos I don’t have a degree. But isn’t it wrong for parents to prevent their children from marriage for reasons like that? I’m a girl, so it’s not like I need an income, and I can study ... Read More
**Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem****Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh, dear brothers and sisters in Islam.** I am writing this message with a heart full of pain, hoping that Allah will guide me and that I may receive sincere advice and du’a from this blessed community. Allah says in the Qur’an:*”Allah does not burden a soul beyond ... Read More
Link to previous post: https://www.stonestobridges.org/2026/03/09/masturbating-addiction/ Update:Since my last post on March 12th, I have been trying desperately to turn my life around. I actually managed to go two weeks without porn/masturbation, which was a huge milestone for me. I was starting to feel proud and was finally mentally preparing myself to return to my SalahHowever, ... Read More
I am a 24 years old female who is currently living with her family. I’ve recently received a proposal brought from my family of someone practicing and of good background. If all goes well, we will be engaged which is likely going to happen. The thing is, I don’t feel excited or happy about this ... Read More
Note : The contents of this post discuss sexuality , identity , exploration , teenage feelings within Islam. “Will I forever be this way” I often ask myself, a girl 17 years old with an attraction to other girls, and guys. I wasn’t always like this and I never always had these feelings it’s something ... Read More
Assalamualaikum, I’m a 23 year old woman, and I’m in need of some advice. I’m at a crossroads in regards to what to do in my life right now. I’m applying for Master’s. I want to go study in Malaysia, my parents support me, but they also asked me to apply to a university where ... Read More
Alright so, I know this is a long story but please i need help, i am honestly doubting coming here, but this is sort of a last resort option, i genuinely don’t know what to do.here is the story (some typos may be within):So 2 months ago, I was playing capture the flag, where this ... Read More
Im 15 female so everything started 2 years ago , when I was praying normally in ramadan some very bad thoughts came to me it was scared didnt know what to do , then days passed and the thoughts were getting worse and worse until some nights I was scared to even close my eyes ... Read More
Counselling Request – Personal Background and Concerns I am a 25-year-old female currently living at home with both of my parents, Alhamdulillah, and three of my siblings. I am seeking counselling because I feel overwhelmed and I do not know who to speak to for guidance, especially from an Islamic perspective. I did not grow ... Read More
