Archive For: Dear Fatima
Note : The contents of this post discuss sexuality , identity , exploration , teenage feelings within Islam. “Will I forever be this way” I often ask myself, a girl 17 years old with an attraction to other girls, and guys. I wasn’t always like this and I never always had these feelings it’s something ... Read More
I am a 15 year old girl was born into a Muslim family, and my whole family is Muslim. I was raised that way, but I was born in the United States in an Arab African family. Growing up, my mom would tell me to pray and ask God for things, and I did it, ... Read More
Assalamualaikum, I’m a 23 year old woman, and I’m in need of some advice. I’m at a crossroads in regards to what to do in my life right now. I’m applying for Master’s. I want to go study in Malaysia, my parents support me, but they also asked me to apply to a university where ... Read More
Alright so, I know this is a long story but please i need help, i am honestly doubting coming here, but this is sort of a last resort option, i genuinely don’t know what to do.here is the story (some typos may be within):So 2 months ago, I was playing capture the flag, where this ... Read More
Im 15 female so everything started 2 years ago , when I was praying normally in ramadan some very bad thoughts came to me it was scared didnt know what to do , then days passed and the thoughts were getting worse and worse until some nights I was scared to even close my eyes ... Read More
Counselling Request – Personal Background and Concerns I am a 25-year-old female currently living at home with both of my parents, Alhamdulillah, and three of my siblings. I am seeking counselling because I feel overwhelmed and I do not know who to speak to for guidance, especially from an Islamic perspective. I did not grow ... Read More
Hey i am 17 and i am maleYesterday a fight broke out at my home lets know the root cause So yah i live with my stepmom and dad and my og mom lives far from here and from last 1-2 mnths my father was sending me in steel factory to work 12 hr shift ... Read More
Salam, this is a continuation of the post “I fought with my best friend”, and I’m writing this nearly a month later. If you cannot go read the other post, what happened was this; my best friend has liked a guy at school for 2 years now, and 2026 marked the start of year 3 ... Read More
So I’ve had a porn/masturbating addiction probably since I was 12/13, I’ve realized a while back I shouldn’t be doing this, but here I am, 3 years later, still doing this, even in Ramadan whilst fasting I’m doing it, I’ve missed 8 days now just from masturbating and porn, I also haven’t properly prayed for ... Read More
Assalamu’alaikum,I’m writing this because I feel quite uneasy about this problem that i have. I’m 19 years old, I graduated high school in 2025, and now I’m in my second gap year. It wasn’t the plan. My parents are going through some really hard economic times right now. They are the best, most genuine people ... Read More
