Archive For: Dear Fatima
Hey i am 17 and i am maleYesterday a fight broke out at my home lets know the root cause So yah i live with my stepmom and dad and my og mom lives far from here and from last 1-2 mnths my father was sending me in steel factory to work 12 hr shift ... Read More
Salam, this is a continuation of the post “I fought with my best friend”, and I’m writing this nearly a month later. If you cannot go read the other post, what happened was this; my best friend has liked a guy at school for 2 years now, and 2026 marked the start of year 3 ... Read More
So I’ve had a porn/masturbating addiction probably since I was 12/13, I’ve realized a while back I shouldn’t be doing this, but here I am, 3 years later, still doing this, even in Ramadan whilst fasting I’m doing it, I’ve missed 8 days now just from masturbating and porn, I also haven’t properly prayed for ... Read More
Assalamu’alaikum,I’m writing this because I feel quite uneasy about this problem that i have. I’m 19 years old, I graduated high school in 2025, and now I’m in my second gap year. It wasn’t the plan. My parents are going through some really hard economic times right now. They are the best, most genuine people ... Read More
I’m 23(F) and I’m ashamed to admit this but I think I might have a masturbation addiction. I’m also a hijabi, which makes me feel more guilty. Something just hasn’t been right with my Iman these past few months. I’ve been the worst possible person this ramadan. Even during this blessed month, I masturbated (during ... Read More
I’m a 14-year-old Muslim girl seeking guidance about a friendship situation. For the past two years, I’ve been best friends with another Muslim girl. During this time, I’ve struggled with feeling authentic in our friendship. I often feel drained and find myself people-pleasing – saying yes to everything she says, not being able to open ... Read More
I a 20 year old male am tortured by my father mentally and physically. My father ever since i was a child never really supported me with my decisions very much if it’s not to his liking then I’m in the wrong even if I’m not doing anything bad. I was not a very bright ... Read More
Salam, I am 14F who lives in Australia, and I’ve been struggling with the concept of how music is haram. First of all I want to say that I don’t listen to music, and thats not whats bothering me. While I don’t consciously open a playlist and listen to music, I’m sad and annoyed that ... Read More
I’m not sure how to structure this, but I’ll begin by saying I just saw a post saying that maybe if you’re doing badly in exams, it’s because Allah is protecting you from a degree that could lead to harm for you, and that’s what made me decide to write this. So, my situation is ... Read More
I don’t know if I want to be a Hijabi anymore, but I’ve worn it for so long (I’m 22, have worn it since I was 13). Little things are starting to bother me like not having the wind though my hair or wearing clothes that I feel warm in or not being able to ... Read More
