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I’m 18 and wanna get married, but my parents seem against it cos of my age or maybe cos I don’t have a degree. But isn’t it wrong for parents to prevent their children from marriage for reasons like that? I’m a girl, so it’s not like I need an income, and I can study ... Read More
**Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem****Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh, dear brothers and sisters in Islam.** I am writing this message with a heart full of pain, hoping that Allah will guide me and that I may receive sincere advice and du’a from this blessed community. Allah says in the Qur’an:*”Allah does not burden a soul beyond ... Read More
Link to previous post: https://www.stonestobridges.org/2026/03/09/masturbating-addiction/ Update:Since my last post on March 12th, I have been trying desperately to turn my life around. I actually managed to go two weeks without porn/masturbation, which was a huge milestone for me. I was starting to feel proud and was finally mentally preparing myself to return to my SalahHowever, ... Read More
I am a 24 years old female who is currently living with her family. I’ve recently received a proposal brought from my family of someone practicing and of good background. If all goes well, we will be engaged which is likely going to happen. The thing is, I don’t feel excited or happy about this ... Read More
Assalamualaikum, I’m a 23 year old woman, and I’m in need of some advice. I’m at a crossroads in regards to what to do in my life right now. I’m applying for Master’s. I want to go study in Malaysia, my parents support me, but they also asked me to apply to a university where ... Read More
Counselling Request – Personal Background and Concerns I am a 25-year-old female currently living at home with both of my parents, Alhamdulillah, and three of my siblings. I am seeking counselling because I feel overwhelmed and I do not know who to speak to for guidance, especially from an Islamic perspective. I did not grow ... Read More
Hey i am 17 and i am maleYesterday a fight broke out at my home lets know the root cause So yah i live with my stepmom and dad and my og mom lives far from here and from last 1-2 mnths my father was sending me in steel factory to work 12 hr shift ... Read More
“Alhamdulillahi rabbil ‘Alamiin, Jazakillah khairan katsiran. Thank you so much for all of you who helped me find clarity in this problem that i have. I truly feel more at ease and peace after reading your replies, it truly helped me out of my constant fear that i always had for quite sometimes. Thank you ... Read More
So I’ve had a porn/masturbating addiction probably since I was 12/13, I’ve realized a while back I shouldn’t be doing this, but here I am, 3 years later, still doing this, even in Ramadan whilst fasting I’m doing it, I’ve missed 8 days now just from masturbating and porn, I also haven’t properly prayed for ... Read More
Assalamu’alaikum,I’m writing this because I feel quite uneasy about this problem that i have. I’m 19 years old, I graduated high school in 2025, and now I’m in my second gap year. It wasn’t the plan. My parents are going through some really hard economic times right now. They are the best, most genuine people ... Read More
